In order to stand out from the crows, you have to be willing to be different and do something different that very few others are choosing to be or do.
If you truly want to stand out from the crowd, you've got to get to the point where you don't live your life by other people's standards and points of view. Sadly, most people have a powerful desire to fit in and a strong need to remain in good standing with the group - and they believe that they can maintain their good standing by conforming. This tendency to conform is responsible for keeping people trapped under the fiercely influential force of this reality and never ever stand out.
People’s tendency to conform is really a wish for status, security, and predictability. They are willing to do whatever they can to fit in and to be in the correct context with everyone else. A majority of people see this "fit in" standard as the source for the best of what they have defined as success in this reality
To truly generate your life and stand out from the crowd, you have to let go of the standard life—the life that meets the standards of everyone else. Do you have the courage to stand alone, even in the face of unfavorable consequences? Are you willing to fall out of favor with the rest of the group? Are you willing to be a nonconformist?
Thomas Jefferson said, " If you want something you've never had, you must be willing to do something you've never done." It is mandatory to quit blending in yourself or acclimatising with the rest of the world in order to stand apart from the rest. Are you aware that what’s happening in your life is your creation and you can create what you would like to have, but it requires you to choose to be and do something different!
Now it’s time to choose to live a different way if you would like to stand out from the crowd, if you’d like your life to change, and if you’d like there to be different possibilities.
But the key question is, what would it take for that to happen? First and foremost, it's all about your points of view about life, about this reality and about yourself. When you’re willing to be and do different, you create and generate something different. If you’re not willing to be or do different, then you keep trying to do what everybody has told you that you should do, to get a result that’s different from the result you’re getting. Is that going to work? Not at all. You’re doing the same thing that everybody else tells you that you should do to try to get a different result. Not possible.
Don’t go into “How do I do that?” Ask a question “What can I be or do different today to create a different possibility right away?”